LESSON 1: MIND IS THE FORERUNNER OF ALL STATES
Our lives and the circumstances we live in are largely the result of our own thoughts and beliefs. The sum total of our thoughts, if they are positive, will result in a positive life for us. The converse is just as true. If we think negatively most of the time, we tend to attract negative circumstances into our life.
The Buddhists know this as the Law of Kamma. Jesus said, “You reap what you sow.” If you plant an apple seed, you get an apple tree. The seed is your thought imprint. The apple tree is what is manifested in your physical world. The ancient Egyptians called this phenomenon…This great truth is known to all mystics and ancient sages. They may have said it in different ways but they all point to the same thing.
Our thoughts are energetic waves and they are subjected to the Law of Sympathetic Resonance. According to this law, when an object with a specific frequency vibrates and is brought near another object with similar frequency, it will cause the second object to vibrate as well.
The classic example for this is that of a singer with a high-pitched voice breaking a glass. In science classes, this same principle is demonstrated by bringing a vibrating tuning fork to another tuning fork with similar frequency. The second tuning fork will start to vibrate on its own.
In modern time, this universal principle is called the Universal Law of Attraction. It is important to note that the second object can only vibrate if it is of similar frequency to the first object. What this means is
Another important principle to remember is that….
If you’ve ever tried to guard the thoughts that get into your subconscious mind, then you’ll know what a formidable task this is. The more mindful or aware you are, the easier it is to guard what goes through your mind. We will deal with this mindfulness or self-awareness later.
LESSON 2: CHANGE YOUR BELIEFS AND YOU CHANGE YOUR LIFE
Our mind is to our body what the software is to the computer. It controls the body. Whatever words and deeds that come out through your mouth or your body must first be conceived in your mind. Our belief system is comparable to the computer’s operating system (OS). It determines….
- how we respond or react to the external world and circumstances, and
- what we attract into our life
If you look carefully at yourself, you’ll realise that how you respond to a certain situation is largely dependant on your core beliefs. If you believe that the world out there is a dog-eat-dog world, you’ll respond in a certain way. You’ll put on your guard when you deal with people around you, with a greater degree of mistrust and apprehension. This is a common mindset in the business world.
Contrast that with your mindset when you’re in a sacred place, for example in a church or a temple. Your responses toward people in such places are entirely different from your usual dealing with your business associates. Even your words become softer and gentler. Your entire mannerism changes.
So how we respond to the external world depends on our core beliefs.
The second fact to remember, and this is important if we want to change our life, is that our core beliefs also determine what we attract into our life. This is consistent with the Universal Law of Attraction that says like attracts like.
This is because our belief system is like our computer’s operating system. If your computer is running a Windows OS, your mind will only be attracted to softwares and programmes that is compatible with the Windows environment. It automatically overlooks programmes for Macs and Linux because you know you cannot run those programmes in your PC. Thus our belief system may limit our possibilities in life.
Likewise, if you believe in scarcity (as opposed to a belief in abundance), you’ll attract circumstances into your life that is consistent with that belief and so you’ll find yourself in constant struggle to accumulate the wealth you want. Note that what you believe need not be what you want.
What this means is that…
In fact, this truth is so important that I will repeat it once more.
- the strength of our belief
- the duration we hold that belief
The stronger and longer we hold our belief, the more likely it is to crystalise or come true in our life.
LESSON 3: PRINCIPLE OF ACCOUNTABILITY
Once we understand the concept of
AS WE SOW, SO WE REAP
we will understand that whatever we get out of our lives is a result of what we have planted in our mind. Our past mental imprints determine our present situation in life, and the mental imprints that we plant now will determine our future situation.
Likewise, to plant for a beautiful life, we must select only the mental imprints that we want, and constantly weed out the useless or harmful mental imprints. This, of course, requires constant mindfulness. We need to continuously guard what goes pass our conscious mind into our subconscious mind.The ancient sages liken this to planting a garden. If we want a beautiful garden, we will have to selectively plant beautiful plants. What is equally important is that we must constantly pull out the weeds. Without doing that, our garden will be overrun by weeds, obscuring the beautiful plants.
What this means is that …
Funnily, though, when good things come into our lives, we somehow believe we deserve them. We rarely look outside for someone to praise. If we would blame others for the bad things, why do we not praise others for the good things in our lives?
Blaming others is our way of avoiding taking responsibility for our lives. As long as we do that, we will never be the master of our lives. To counter this unhealthy tendency, we should instead cultivate a sense of gratitude towards all that we received.
One of the ways I do this is by repeating the following poem like a mantra as often as I can remember:
Thank you for the abundance,
Thank you for the wealth;
Thank you for all the happiness,
Protections and Good Health.
LESSON 4: OPEN YOUR HEART TO LOVE
Many people live a life without love.
They cannot love themselves, and therefore they cannot love anyone else. Some even feel that they do not deserve love. The sad fact is that without love, no matter what else you have in life, it’s not enough. We need to love ourselves unconditionally in order to live fully.
Love here refers to unconditional, universal love and respect for life – yours and everyone else’s. We are all capable of this type of love. In fact, if we can strip ourselves of all our negative emotions, imprints and ego, what remains is pure, unconditional love. That is who or what we are underneath all the layers of impurities that we have accumulated.The love I’m referring to here is not romantic love.
The problem is that we have forgotten how to love. We have to learn to open our heart to love again.
First, we have to accept that we are capable of love – pure, unconditional, selfless love! We have to accept the need to express this form of love in our life in order to live fully.
Next, we have to learn to forgive – ourselves and everyone else, especially those whom have hurt us in the past. Learning to forgive is not a choice. It is a neccesity! We need to forgive in order to heal ourselves and make ourselves whole again. If we cannot forgive, we cannot move forward. We will continue to carry old wounds and burdens with us. When we forgive, we let go of all these wounds and burdens, and instantly feel lighter and stronger to move forward.
Forgiving does not mean forgetting.
It means we’re willing to let go of the past and willing to give ourselves the freedom to start afresh without encumbering ourselves with the old wounds. We remember the lessons without bitterly holding on to the pain. We do not wish to blame anyone anymore.
There are three types of forgiveness:
- Forgiving those who have hurt us
- Forgiving ourselves for hurting others
- Forgiving ourselves for hurting ourselves
To open our heart to love, we must learn to love ourselves first. To do that, we need to start by forgiving ourselves for all our shortcomings and mistakes. We need to stop blaming ourselves. We stop blaming others and circumstances. It does not mean that we do not accept responsibility for our actions. What it does mean is that we recognise our weaknesses and mistakes and wish to give ourselves another chance to make our life work for us.
Our life is an expression of all our mental and emotional imprints. All these imprints find expression outwardly in our life sooner or later. The sooner they are expressed, the more liberating it feels. Bottled up inside, the negative imprints can grow into something potentially more harmful and malignant. We need to give these negative imprints a chance to be expressed so that we can release all the pent up energies we hold inside us – energies that can manifest physically as illnesses and emotionally as fear, anger, frustration, guilt, doubt and lack of self-esteem.
Here are some suggestions on ways to express youself and transform negative, pent up energies into positive, liberating energies.
- Sharing with trusted friends and support groups
- Professional counselling or therapy
Action here refers to actual acts of loving-kindness in our lives. Like all habits, we need to integrate this into our daily lives in order for it to become a part of us.
Here are some exercises to help generate more feeling of loving-kindness towards all beings:
1. Loving-Kindness Meditation
Generating unconditional love requires effort at first. The Buddhist’s Metta Meditation is a good meditation to help generate unconditional love towards all beings.
2. Eliminating Prejudices
Universal love is unconditional and without any bias or prejudice. If you have a certain prejudice towards certain people or race, try to make an extra effort to love them unconditionally. For example, if you are biased against Muslims in general, make an extra effort to seek out Muslim orphanages or old folks homes to give gifts during a New Year celebration or a special occasion.
3. Perform an Unconditional Act of Love Daily
There are many things you can do daily to show your unconditional love. For example, we often do not notice the mailman, or the garbage collector. In the office, we often do not notice the tea lady and maintenance staff. Do you know who sweeps your office daily? Make an effort to know these people as a person.
LESSON 5: WHATEVER WE RESIST PERSISTS
Old habits die hard.
We have the tendency to repeat old mistakes and resist change although we know deep down inside that change is inevitable. Nothing stays the same forever. The nature of life is change, so the sooner we accept this fact and use it to our personal advantage, the better.
So, today, let us do what needs to be done. Let us…People who are successful and happy are people who have mastered change. They do not stay in their old comfort zones for they understand that in order for growth to occur, they must have the courage to live outside their comfort zones. Like a potted plant whose growth is limited by the size of the pot, they know that only by breaking the pot and allow their roots to sink into the ground can they grow bigger and stronger.
FACE OUR FEARS
Facing our fears require courage. It means looking at ourselves as we truly are, stripped of all the masks and façade. It means being truly honest with ourselves. That is why transformation and re-inventing oneself is often considered the way of the warriors. This is, as M. Scott Peck says, the road less traveled.
Let us not be the proverbial ostrich who sticks his head into a hole each time he faces a threat. Instead, let us be courageous enough to face our own shadow – our ego! Today, let us begin to be a warrior.
“A man’s true greatness lies in the consciousness of an honest purpose in life, founded on a just estimate of himself and everything else, on frequent self examination and a steady obedience to the rules which he knows to be right, without troubling himself about what others may think or say, or whether they do or do not do that which he thinks and says and does.” – Marcus Aurelius
Do not resist change for doing so will only end in disappointment. Since change is inevitable, no one can stop the changes in life. However, we can always choose to change for the better. We can always change for personal and spiritual growth.
Here are a few areas we can change:
- Our attitude
- Our beliefs
- Our habits and tendencies in thoughts, words and actions
If you’re not the person you want to be yet, you need to make some changes in all these areas. Examine your attitude, your belief systems and your tendencies in thoughts, speech and actions. Keep what is wholesome and beneficial to your personal growth and transformation and change the unwholesome and harmful ones. This you MUST do if you wish to re-invent yourself.
ADOPT A POSITIVE ATTITUDE
Our attitude determines our altitude in life. So examine your own attitude in life right now and see why you are stuck in your current situation. Then make the effort to replace this negative attitude with a more positive and wholesome one.
Your first step in self transformation must begin with this change in attitude. Without this change, you’ll continue to be stuck in your present situation.
EMBRACE AN EFFECTIVE BELIEF SYSTEM
Here are some important beliefs you must embrace into your new belief system:
- Believe in your own divinity
- Believe in unconditional love
- Believe in abundance
- Believe in gratitude
Embracing these new beliefs is like erasing your own software and replacing it with a new one. These new beliefs will be more beneficial to your success and happiness than the old ones that have become an impediment to your happiness. You have outlived your own software and must upgrade to this new one in order to rise to a new level of achievement.
CREATE HABITS OF SUCCESS
As we have mentioned earlier, old habits die hard. To change old habits and replace them with new ones, new effort must be exerted in our thoughts and speech. In fact, by changing just our thoughts, our speech and action will automatically change. Here are some exercises you need to do:
- Replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts
- Understand that words have great power and so use this power with care
- Perform an act of kindness every day. Simple act of kindness in thoughts, words and deeds, when practiced daily, becomes a habit.
LESSON 6: THREE STUMBLING BLOCKS AND THEIR ANTIDOTES
Understanding the reasons for our resistance is helpful in overcoming it. So let’s take a look at three major stumbling blocks and their antidotes.
The Three Stumbling Blocks and Their Antidotes
There are three major stumbling blocks that may prevent a person from achieving transformation in his or her life. They are:
Doubt arises when we do not believe in the truth of what is taught. One of the problems with doubt is that we normally require proof of the validity of the teachings. Yet the problem with this particular stance is that “the proof of the pie is in the eating”. If you do not eat it, no amount of description about the pie by another will give you the taste of the pie.
In order to know this path, you must walk the path. Only then can you experience the truth of the teachings.
Even so, for those who require proof, there are ample examples of those who have walked the path and enjoyed its fruits. All the ancient sages knew and taught this truth. Deep down inside, even we ourselves know this to be true. Why else would we respect and be in awe at the achievements of these ancient sages if we do not think that their achievements are truly great? But it is a greatness we ourselves can achieve as well. We just need to walk this less traveled but proven path.
The antidote for doubt is faith – faith in the teachings and achievements of all the great ancient sages and mystics, faith in the universality of their teachings and faith in our own divinity. And why should we not have such faith? After all, there are many examples of people who choose to follow this path and each of them has been able to achieve the joy and happiness that is seek.
Fear is a characteristic of our ego. Our ego has a great need to preserve its own existence. In fact, our ego is the proverbial devil who cunningly blind us to our real divine nature.
Fear arises because in walking this path, we will eventually eliminate our ego. The destination of this path is the death of the ego. Our ego knows this and so it works to preserve its own existence by sowing doubt and fear in our mind. This results in inaction or a resistance to change.
When we resist, our present form persist. Thus, our ego remains intact. It saves itself.
The antidote for fear is courage – the courage to accept that we are indeed divine beings and that we have the capacity to love unconditionally, even ourselves, or rather especially ourselves. Many of us feel that we do not deserve love and so shut ourselves off from this unconditional love that we would so easily give to others. Yet without unconditionally loving ourselves, we cannot give true unconditional love to others.
Thus, we need the courage to believe what we know to be true and the courage to do what we know we must do in order to achieve the best that we can achieve for ourselves.
Inaction is the result of doubt and fear, and laziness. We have this inert tendency to stay as we are, instead of exerting effort for change. This is the inertia inherent in all things, the resistance to change. We prefer our familiar comfort zone, even when we are not happy in it.
We need to overcome our doubt and fear, and then put in the effort to change – to overcome our inaction. The struggle is similar to pushing a big heavy boulder down a slope. In the beginning, the resistance is great. It is at its maximum. We need to put in extra effort to move it. However, once it has begun to move we only need to exert minimal force to keep it moving and soon it will be rolling down the slope on its own. As it rolls down, it will in fact gather more momentum to continue moving forward.
The antidote for inaction is therefore effort.
- Create a list of the things you fear. Arrange them with your greatest fear on top of the list and your smallest fear at the bottom. Then confront this fear in a sensible way and slowly eliminate each fear from your list, beginning with the smallest fear and working upward to your greatest fear.
LESSON 7: ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE, ALTRUISTIC JOY AND ABUNDANCE
Bertrand Russell, the great American philosopher said, “One of the greatest discoveries of our time is that man, by changing the inner attitude of his mind, can alter the outer aspects of his life”. This is what the ancient Egyptians called “As Within, So Without”.
Attitude of GratitudeTo transform our life from the inside out, we need to adopt a positive attitude towards life in general. Three important attitudes deserve a special mention here. They are:
- Attitude of Altruistic Joy
- Attitude of Abundance
Most people do not truly understand why these attitudes are important. Even those who actually adopt these attitudes in their life may not fully realise the implications of these attitudes.
We can begin to understand the immense importance of adopting these attitudes in our life when we understand the Law of Sympathetic Resonance that says, “Like attracts like”. In other words, the mental imprints we created in our mind will result in actual corresponding physical reality in our life. It is as though the mental imprints attract these conditions to our life. In reality, it is the fruition of the mental imprints, like an apple seed that has begun to bear fruit. Thus the proverb, “We reap what we sow.”
Now, here is why these attitudes are important:
Grateful people fix their attention to the good that the universe has to offer. They expect good things to happen to them and so draw goodness to themselves.
People who are grateful for what they have or what they have received focus their mind on what they have, not on what they have not. Although the gift they received may be small or of little value, they are thankful to have received them. According to the Law of Sympathetic Resonance, like attracts like. This sense of gratitude, by focusing on what they have, will result in more similar circumstances coming their way. Thus, they will continue to receive.
Altruistic joy is a concept borrowed from the Buddhists. It is a habit of rejoicing in the happiness and success of others. This is a good remedy for ill-will towards others.
People who have the habit of practising altruistic joy focus their mind on happiness and success, thus attracting these two things into their own life. In contrast, if we were to have ill-will towards others, we will be attracting more corresponding negative situations into our own life. Thus, it is true that we cannot achieve happiness by inflicting unhappiness onto others. We can only achieve happiness by giving happiness to others, and sharing in their happiness.
People with an attitude of abundance are generally charitable and love to share what they have with others, even when they do not have much to give. It is not the amount you give that matters. What truly matters is the spirit in which you give. When you give freely, believing that you will always have more than enough to go around, this mental imprint will attract the corresponding condition into your life.
Attitude of Gratitude and Abundance
At the end of each day, recite this little poem:
Thank you for the abundance,
Thank you for the wealth.
Thank you for all the happiness,
Protection and good health.
If you practice this little exercise earnestly, you will be surprised by the positive changes that come your way.
LESSON 8: SETTING THE DAY
The first hour of your day strongly determines how your entire day would turn out. If you start off the day grumpily or angrily, you’re likely to end up with a totally grumpy or angry day unless you are alert enough to catch the mood and actively choose to discard it.
In my own experience, going to bed after midnight often results in an unsatisfactory sleep. I wake up in the morning still groggy and tired, and it takes me a while to get “warm up” for the day.This is why it is always important to get a good night sleep so that you wake up alert, fully refreshed and eager to face another day. Waking up this way is the best way to set the mood for the entire day.
Knowing this, I have my own routine of going to bed at about eleven at night and waking up fresh and fully rested at about seven the next morning.
The first thing I do when I wake up is to reach out for my little “Book of Daily Devotion to God” which is just next to my bed. In this book, there is a good phrase, suggestion or advice for each day of the year. By reading it, I automatically programmed my mind with a positive thought. This becomes my first thought for the day and set the trend for the type of thoughts I will have for the rest of the day.
The next thing I do is to sit in meditation for 20 to 30 minutes, and sometimes even for an hour. In this quiet space, I train my mind to be focused on one single object. With the mind concentrated, there is peace and tranquility. This peace is useful as you carry it with you throughout the day, making you a calmer and more composed person.
Meditation is such an important exercise for the mind that we need to understand it a bit more here.
The goal of meditation is to still the mind and one of the ways to do this is to focus the mind on one single object. This object of meditation can be anything we choose to focus on, but it should preferably be neutral to our emotion and perception. Many meditation masters advocate using our breath as an object of meditation. Others use an image of a holy and respected saint or teacher, or the sound of a venerated word such as “Om”.
It does not matter what you choose for your object of meditation but what is important is that you stick to this same object throughout your meditation.
Focusing your mind on a single object is not as easy as it may sound. Our mind is habitually fleeting and jumping from one object of focus to another, very much like a monkey swinging from one branch to another. The only difference, and this is a very important point, is that unlike a monkey that may stop to rest, our mind never stop thinking – even when we’re asleep.
We all know that old habit dies hard. To change our mind from one that jumps from one topic to another to one that is completely focused on a single object is not an easy feat. However, with determined practice and effort, this single-pointedness of the mind can be achieved. Once it is achieved, you will experience for yourself the peace and tranquility that is the inherent nature of that mental silence. On top of that, you will also experience more clarity and insight into the true nature of your being.
When meditation becomes a natural part of your daily practice, you will achieve a permanent change in your personality and outlook in life. Your mind and your life become happier and more focused on what is truly important in life. You will find a preference to slow down your life rather than madly chasing after everything as if a 24-hour day is not enough for you. You will learn to trust your instinct as you become more comfortable with your divinity. You will realise that you are a spiritual being experiencing life through your physical body, but not limited to your physical body. Your goal in life, whatever you choose to focus on, becomes more easily achievable as your new positive mental imprints attract corresponding conditions into your life.
In short, success becomes easier.
Learn to meditate from a good meditation teacher. Then, set aside at least 20 minutes each day for your meditation practice. Seriously discipline yourself to acquire this habit of daily meditation and you will truly experience a transformative life.
2. Book of Daily Devotion to God
Get a good book with daily quotes and tips for the entire year. Put it next to your bed where you can easily reach out for it when you wake up in the morning. Read the quote or tip for the corresponding day first thing in the morning when you wake up and set your mind in that positive mood for the rest of the day.
LESSON 9: CRYSTALLISING YOUR THOUGHTS
All the information and knowledge on self-improvement are of no use unless you use them to transform your thoughts and ideas into physical results. Just knowing is not enough to succeed. You MUST put in the effort to crystallise your thoughts.
There are two levels you must work on:
- The formless world
- The physical world
From Formless to Form
Everything that you see in this physical world was first conceived in the formless world of thoughts and ideas. Every thought or idea draws unto itself all the necessary sustenance from the formless, creating opportunities and attracting resources and other similar ideas to come together, until the idea achieves maturity and crystallises in the physical world.
This is a process of creation and there is a certain sequence to this entire process of creation. Whether you create a new object or a new you, the process is always the same.
Whatever it is that you want to achieve in life, these are the steps you need to transform your ideas into reality:
- Belief and Faith
- Specialised Knowledge and/or Experience
- Organised Planning
The first four are in the realm of the formless. The last three are in the physical realm.
FEEBLE ONES HAVE ONLY WISHES
No transformation can occur without a strong desire for success. That is why the “mass of men live lives of quiet desperations”. The majority of people only wish for good things in their lives without putting in any significant effort towards achieving them. That is why lotteries are popular. It’s the easy way to riches. We’re victims of the “get-rich-quick” mentality.
Only those with a strong desire for success or change can hope to achieve what they set out to achieve, for this strong desire is the fuel that will propel them to greater things. A strong desire is what energises your thoughts and push you into action. A strong desire also draws resources from the formless into your life. Thus you’ll meet with a series of coincidence and synchronicity. You’ll start to see what you could not see before. The outer world has not changed; only you have.
Belief and Faith
A strong desire is sustainable by an equally strong belief in yourself and in your goal. Coupled with faith in the wisdom of the universe, this strong belief and desire will be the driving force in your achievements.
Develop, then, a strong faith in the wisdom of the universe. Have trust that the universe will provide you with all that you need to succeed or be who you want to be. The stronger your faith, the stronger you will draw the formless resources to you. It is the doubter who creates his own failure for he fills his mind with “what cannot be” instead of “what can be”.
Visualise the final outcome of your goal or the end-product. Do not visualise the methods leading to your goal; just focus on your final goal.
For example, if you want to own a Ferrari car in a year’s time, do not visualise how you are going to get it. Just see yourself owning a Ferrari, driving in it, feeling ecstatic as the wind blows into your face while you drive and so forth. Create as fully and as complete as you can the entire scene of you enjoying your Ferrari. It is important to accompany this with strong emotion such as joy and happiness in owning it.
Auto-suggestion is the act of constantly feeding mental suggestions and imprints to your subconscious mind. Remember that your subconscious mind does not discriminate what is real and what is not. It accepts totally anything you feed it. So be careful what you feed your subconscious mind.
When you consistently and persistently feed your subconscious mind with positive thoughts relevant to your goal, these thoughts will eventually crystallise into reality. The key words here are consistently and persistently.
Specialised Knowledge and/or Experience
Whatever it is you want to be, you must acquire the specialised knowledge or skills required for it. Otherwise, your wish is just wishful thinking.
For example, if you want to become a trainer or motivator, you cannot just visualised yourself being one without putting in the effort to learn about public speaking, developing your self-confidence and learning the required knowledge and skills to be a trainer or motivator. You have to read up, attend seminars and workshops, mingle with successful trainers and motivators, and train yourself to speak well in public.
There is a popular saying that goes:
Goals are not achieved overnight. All worthwhile achievements take time. So be patient and persistent in your effort. Have faith in your goals and maintain your desire to succeed.
As you continue to put in the effort of auto-suggestions and visualisation, you’ll soon find yourself attracting opportunities, relevant ideas and solutions, and meeting people who can and will help you along the way to achieving your goals.
Remember to have an attitude of gratitude towards those who help you, no matter how small the favour may be. Maintain also an attitude of abundance and be charitable in your heart and daily practice. Delight in the success of others. All these put your mind in a positive state to receive corresponding abundance and joy from the universe.
One of the best time to suggest success to your subconscious mind is when you’re about to fall asleep. Try suggesting this as you’re about to fall asleep:
“Everyday in every way, I’m getting better and better.”
You can be creative and come up with your own.
LESSON 10: DAILY 5-POINT CHECKLIST FOR TRANSFORMATION
After all, if we do the same things day after day, we can only expect the same results. If we sincerely want to change – to transform our life – we must change our present mental habits. Our success depends on it.To transform our physical life, we must first transform our non-physical world of thoughts and beliefs for it is here that the seed begins to sprout into physical reality. Changing the physical is easy. Changing our mental habits is not, yet change we must or we will continue to stay in our present circumstances.
Here’s a suggested Daily 5-Point Checklist you can use to check your mental habits and keep your mind in a predominantly positive mode.
DAILY 5-POINT CHECKLIST
|1.||Set the Day Right
- Start off the day with a positive mental imprint
|First thing when you wake up, read a positive phrase or inspirational tip from a phrase book. Have this phrase book next to your bed so that you can easily reach out for it when you wake up.|
|2.||Meditation||Spend 20 to 30 minutes to be with yourself. Train your mind to be still and enjoy the silent communion with your own divinity.|
|3.||Midday Awareness Check
- We habitually go through our daily life without slowing down and be aware of our thoughts and feelings. We need to change this habit and become more aware and in touch with our thoughts and feelings.
|Spend about 15 minutes during your lunch break to list down the positive and negative thoughts and emotions you’ve experienced earlier. Use a small notebook for this. As this practice becomes a habit, you’ll become more aware of your thoughts and feelings, and will be able to stop your negative thoughts and feelings before they can develop further.|
|4.||Develop attitude of gratitude, altruistic joy and abundance||Before leaving your office, thank those whom have helped you in your work. Be genuinely grateful for their assistance, no matter how small it may be. Celebrate your successes or that of your friends and colleagues. Be charitable in your praises and thanks. Share what you have with others.|
- A good beginning should have a good ending. End your day with more positive thoughts and mental imprints.
|Before sleep, do these:
A. Recite this poem of gratitude and abundance
“Thank you for the abundance,
Thank you for the wealth;
Thank you for all the happiness,
Protection and good health.”
B. Does your own positive auto-suggestion or visualisation exercises.
As you become more and more adept at this Daily 5-Point Checklist, you’ll find yourself and your life transforming before your eyes. Not only will you become more aware and relax, you’ll become more friendly and likeable. The sum total of your daily thoughts and feelings will become more positive. As you are transformed, you’ll also experience a positive transformation in the ways people treat you.
Do this and do it well and success will be yours.